narcissist – Our Little Red House

What do you hear? The language of a lie.

I remember where it happened, that first time I thought something was up. It was in a restaurant, a safe happy place where conversations flow easy. A question was asked. ” What do you hear, Yanny or Laurel?” What a strange question I thought to myself as I watched a short clip waiting for the…

Recovery tips for Scapegoat survivors.

I had to go No Contact over a decade ago because my children were being mistreated and programed in my opinion to be the next generation of scapegoats in the family. I tried to set healthy boundaries but my conditions and rules only intensified the dysfunction. Trying to set boundaries only ENRAGED my mother more….